I came in to see you feeling very angry. My partner, whom I was thrilled to marry at the time, turned out to be a big disappointment. He was emotionally unavailable, a poor communicator, and busy with his own career.
I felt so lonely. It was unbearable.
You worked magic with us. So much has changed. I am now happy, productive, and my partner is my best friend. I miss him when he goes away on business trips!
The counselling process had many components. I needed to work on myself so that I could start to feel good about being me. I had to transform from a nagging wife into an enticing partner. I worked on my career, my self-esteem, and then, when I was ready, we had sessions together where I clearly expressed my truth, and what needed to change in the relationship.
It all came together, and I feel such peace and happiness within our relationship. Thank You, Andrea.
I really didn’t think it was possible to rehabilitate our marriage. I was so in love with my wife when we first married. I thought I was the luckiest man in the world. Then, over time, my wife became distant and quite aggressive. We fought more than we loved - especially about the children who were the product of my previous marriage.
At first, you worked with us individually to resolve the backlog of deep hatred we had both accumulated. We had both gotten into the habit of blaming each other, and bringing up our most vulnerable issues in order to regain our respective lost self-esteem.
But within a relatively short period of time, we were ready to meet together to talk about our issues. When we did meet together in sessions, we had very different feeling about each other. We had changed from hostile, to accepting and loving. We had both begun to make an effort to be giving and loving, as well as being considerate of each other’s needs.
Now, thanks to you, we operate as a team. We help each other, we work together, and the happiness in our marriage has been restored. Many thanks.
I came in to see you because I was having a very intense, passionate office romance. My wife found out, and although we didn’t separate, we began living separate lives. I wasn’t sure if I should leave my wife, or try to rehabilitate the marriage.
We worked together to sort out my true feelings. I came to realize that I wanted to be with my wife, and restore the family unit. We had 2 young chidren who were both very important to each of us.
It seemed impossible at the time, but I made the decision to end the extra-marital relationship. Once I did, I was able to invest fully in the marriage. This made all the difference.
Thank you for being so supportive and understanding. Our marriage is now intact.
I never thought I would need marriage counselling. I always thought I was a good communicator. But over time, our relationship had become superficial. We made daily arrangements, but we had stopped communicating our feelings.
Marriage Counselling sessions with you really helped. It didn’t take long before we were able to share heart-felt communication – the way we had when we first met.
It was challenging at times, but the result was worth it. Our relationship is now on solid ground. Thank You Andrea.
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131 Bloor Street West
Toronto ON M5R 1S8